Take
Relationship Coaches Susie and Otto Collins' quiz to find
out...
1. Do you have certain expectations
about how you want to be treated in this relationship and
are you often disappointed?
2. Do you find that you are jealous of
other people and their relationships?
3. Do you have a feeling of
disappointment or failure from past relationships and does
that interfere in your current relationship?
4. Do you want more romance in your
relationship?
5. Are you irritated with your partner
most of the time and do you think he/she is wrong?
6. Are you afraid to say what you are
feeling for fear of causing problems?
7. Are you constantly trying to "fix"
your partner or is your partner trying to "fix" you?
8. Do you or your partner allow
problems to simmer and then one or both of you explode?
9. Do you run away emotionally or
physically when things get tough?
10.Do you ever stay late at work or do
other things to avoid being with your partner?
11.Has anyone ever asked you why you
are with your partner and suggest that you might be happier
with someone else?
Scoring System: If you answered "yes"
to 5 or more of these questions, your relationship may be in
the "danger zone." What this "danger zone" may be telling
you is not that you should leave this relationship but
rather that you and your partner need to focus some
attention on it and learn how to make it better.
It may also mean that you need to take
some time to decide how you want to live your life. If you
answered "yes" to 2 or more of these questions your
relationship may need some attention.
Depending on your specific challenges,
we have several books and courses that can help you put the
"spark" back into your relationship and change it for the
better or help you come to your best decision and move on
with your life.
To help you make the most conscious
decision possible about whether to stay in or leave your
relationship, visit
http://www.stayorgo.com and get our free mini-course.
If you need help with your
relationship, you may consider coaching with Susie or Otto.
Email or call to discuss your challenges and how coaching
might help.